George Bernard Shaw once wrote "There are two tragedies in life : One is losing your heart's desire, the other is gaining it."
Which do you think is more tragic...more cruel? I'd say the latter. If gaining then losing is more tragic, then give me tragedy. But the finest times of our lives is in experiencing the so-called tragedy because it is in those times that you are simply enthralled by memories while you wallow with pain...Oh, the oxymoron of life! Nothing ever comes without a price tag...so unleash the chains and pay the price if its worth every single painless torture then tell me the same..."I wouldn't give back the world what i had with you".